How do I cope?(update)

Well I’m not sure what dads choice is as of yet, but mom talked to him the other day and told him he WAS going to be on the transplant list. So from what I gather she didn’t leave him much choice. I was also told that his heart is only 30% efficiant. So I sit here still wondering how things are going to be. Hopefully at his checkup next week we will have better news.